NorthStar Life Strategies specializes in trauma-informed executive coaching and post-traumatic growth, guiding high-performing leaders to overcome challenges and cultivate resilience for lasting success. I’m Jon-Paul deLange, the founder and my approach combines military-grade resilience, radical self-forgiveness, and high-performance habit formation to help veterans, senior executives, and government leaders overcome emotional blocks, restore clarity, and lead with integrity. Grounded in over 30 years of military experience and a proprietary framework called the Radical Reset Theory, I guide my clients to rebuild their lives by addressing trauma, identity, and performance in one system. Located in Ashburn, Virginia, I serve leaders nationwide, providing a clear blueprint for clarity, power, and progress. I'm here to help you break through to new heights. Reach out today at [email protected].
Most personal development programs offer surface-level results, but Radical Reset is different. It’s not a feel-good, quick-fix program—it’s a trauma-aware, veteran-informed system built on a foundation of neuroscience, identity reconstruction, emotional fitness, and high-performance habits. I work with a very specific group: senior leaders who outwardly appear successful but are privately carrying decades of unprocessed emotional wounds. These individuals often feel isolated in their struggles, but I understand them because I’ve lived through the same challenges. My approach goes beyond traditional coaching by confronting the deep, often invisible pain that holds them back. I challenge my clients to face their pasts, reclaim their lives, and step into their fullest potential through radical forgiveness, clarity, and aligned action. This is real transformation, built for those ready to not only excel but to heal and lead with authenticity.
After 30 years of leading in high-stakes military environments and completing over two dozen deployments, I was blindsided by a PTSD diagnosis I never saw coming. For years, I carried silent struggles that quietly sabotaged my relationships, health, and sense of self—yet I didn’t even realize it. That moment of reckoning sparked a profound journey of radical self-forgiveness, emotional healing, and personal growth, completely reshaping how I viewed myself and the world around me. What began as my own battle to reclaim my clarity and purpose has evolved into a mission to help other high-performing leaders—especially veterans—reset their inner systems, reconnect with their true selves, and lead with unshakable integrity and emotional resilience. Through this journey, I’ve learned that true leadership starts from within, and now I help others unlock that same transformative power within themselves.